 HIO children bundle up as best as their families can afford, often wearing knit hats if they have them. Our community will be so grateful for the knit hats we’ll be bringing to Nepal in November. Dear Friends…hoping you all are well. At an elevation of 4,500 feet above sea level, it rarely snows in Kathmandu. But winters are chilly, especially in the morning and evening hours. Most HIO families have no central heat in their rented rooms. Our two early learning centers are unheated. A group of knitters is on a tear in Sheffield, MA, Ricky’s hometown in the Berkshires. They’re trying to knit 100 hats, enough for every child in our two learning centers to have one. If you’re a knitter, please consider joining them! The children we’re knitting for are between the ages of four to eight. You can use any pattern you like, and whatever yarn you have on hand, wool or acrylic. If you have an extra warm hat or two, feel free to send those along too, whether wool or fleece. We’ll stuff all of the hats into our bags and transport them to Nepal when we travel there in November. Extras will go to our older HIO girls as needed. Learning in winter will be so much nicer when our students are warmed by your kindness. With deep gratitude — Ricky and Laura Please send hats that are finished by October 31 to: Laura Hunt 38 Abner Potter’s Way South Dartmouth, MA 02748 Send hats that are finished by November 20th to: Ricky Bernstein 1504 Silver Street Sheffield, MA 01257  A warm head makes all the difference for learning more comfortably.
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 HIO families living along Kathmandu’s riverbanks experience annual flooding during the monsoon season. Dear Friends, From June to September, the monsoon season in Nepal wreaks havoc on our HIO community. Climate change has made weather extremes more intense. Flash floods and landslides have already caused significant damage in Nepal’s countryside this year, even though the monsoon season was predicted to be drier. The Bagmati River that runs through Kathmandu has overflowed in recent weeks. Slum areas where our girls live have been flooded with raw sewage, ruining bedding, clothing and food. Families have been displaced. Each year since we purchased our Chandra Kala building in 2016, the courtyard has flooded during monsoon season. We worry about children’s lost learning as their teachers scurry about scooping up buckets of dirty water. After one torrential downpour last summer, we imagined capturing the disruptive rainfall and putting it to use. Our Paani for All initiative was born, and with a generous grant from our partners, Friends of Nepal (FoN), it’s now taking shape. Paani means water in Nepali.  Our new rainwater collection and recharge system is helping prevent annual scenes like this flooding at our Chandra Kala center in 2018. In February, we built a new rainwater collection and harvesting system at Chandra Kala, designed and installed by the Nepal organization, Smart Paani. They dug a new well that captures overflow in the courtyard and built a system for channeling rainwater from the roof to a new 500 liter tank. This system has enabled us to buy less water from a tanker truck this year, and there has been no flooding yet. What a relief! While the rainwater collection system is solving problems at our learning center, we remain concerned about water security for our HIO families. Urban growth has put intense pressure on the city’s already inadequate water systems. Most HIO families’ homes have no tap water, and if they do, it’s not clean. Many families have relied on dhunge dhara, the hundreds of ancient stone spouts throughout the city that have provided free water at communal taps for centuries. With a shrinking water table, half of the spouts have now run dry. Bottled water is expensive. Some HIO families resort to using gray water for drinking and cooking, putting them at risk for potentially life-threatening health problems like diarrhea, hepatitis, and cholera. Regular outbreaks of conjunctivitis remind us that hand-washing is a vital, but impossible, task in many households we serve.  Anjelina and her mother, Kalpana, can now filter water from their tap instead of buying heavy bottles of water and carrying them home for the family to use. Thankfully, the FoN grant also funded a pilot project to distribute Smart Paani water filters to 50 HIO families. Mothers who received them were thrilled. After six months of use, many are finding it easier and cheaper to provide clean water for their families. Mothers and teachers are building their understanding of clean water projects through our women’s empowerment classes and teacher trainings. We’re continuing to monitor the effectiveness of this pilot project as we consider offering filters to all 200 of our HIO families next year.
Water security is an essential component of our family-centric approach to social work in Kathmandu. With many thanks to your kind support, our HIO community is on its way to achieving Paani for All. With deep gratitude — Laura & Ricky  With much anticipation, the long awaited box of letters from our girls arrived safely on Laura’s doorstep. What a relief! For all the world, it seemed like buried treasure discovered on the ocean floor. Dear Friends, For more than 30 years, we’ve encouraged HIO sponsors and their girls in Nepal to get to know one another through handwritten letters. Carried by hand across the globe. Mail service to and from Nepal is unreliable and there are no street addresses in Kathmandu. Personal mail delivery is impossible. All through June, our Nepal teachers and staff guided our girls after school in letter-writing. Many girls decorated their notes with colorful hearts, flowers and rainbows. Every girl’s handwriting is impeccable. Each and every letter is unique. The excellent teaching that inspired our girls to do such wonderful work for their far away sponsors is heartfelt. All together, 150 notes neatly packaged were a solid three pounds of love. To ensure this precious cargo reached its destination, Ram sent it along with a trusted relative who was traveling to California. What an incredible team effort!  Rabita’s quiet nature belies her rock-solid inner strength and tenacious resourcefulness. She and her sponsor, Gary, enjoy corresponding with one another. Many fortunate girls and sponsors have formed special bonds over the years through letter-writing. A note from Rabita to her sponsor, Gary Penfield, was particularly poignant. Rabita recently completed a four-year Bachelor of Science program in environmental science while also taking an eighteen month med-tech course for certification to operate X-ray, ultrasound and MRI machines. The final words in Rabita’s note to Gary express all of our sentiments beautifully: At last I want to express my sincere gratitude for your belief in my abilities and investment in my education. Your sponsorship not only eased my financial burden, but it provided me with the confidence and resources necessary to pursue such a valuable experience. Your sponsorship has made a significant difference in my life and I am forever grateful. With heartfelt appreciation — Rabita Thank you, Rabita, for being such a superb role model for your younger HIO sisters. Thank you, Gary, from all of us on the HIO team for believing in Rabita’s capacity and the power of education to transform lives. And thank you to all in our HIO community for the many small miracles you make happen every day. In a world that can feel so utterly chaotic, we have so much to be grateful for. Lovingly — Laura & Ricky  A 50-year veteran of higher education as the Dean at RI College, Gary’s followed Rabita’s progress since she was a little girl. He couldn't be more pleased with her success.  Manu, with daughters Dikshya and Ikshya, joined HIO’s sponsorship program in 2010. With a firm commitment to her education, Iksyha is now on her way to becoming a doctor! Dear Friends, Sometimes the stars align and the outcome for one of our HIO young women is a burst of bright light. Not as often as we’d hope, but, sometimes. Ikshya, who graduated from 12th grade a year ago, shared some wonderful news today. Her name appeared on the list for a spot in an excellent medical school about fifty miles south of her home in Kathmandu. What an accomplishment! For weeks we’d been waiting to hear which of our girls might be offered a coveted place in one of Nepal’s few medical colleges. With nearly twenty thousand students taking the difficult and competitive medical exams, it’s a bit like waiting for your lottery ticket to be called. Fewer than three thousand spots were offered. Ikshya’s news is a celebration not only for her and her family, but also for the entire HIO Nepali team and her devoted sponsor, Ellen Weihenmayer. The five and a half year program’s expense at around $50,000 is prohibitive by Nepali standards. Fortunately for girls like Ikshya who are entering programs in healthcare, the fees are covered by HIO’s Bob and Nettie Isler Fund. This fund was established by former HIO board member, Jack Isler, in honor of his parents, both doctors. Nettie, a Phd psychologist who just turned 98, is so pleased. Jack and his wife, Beth, also sponsor Pooja Lamsal, now in her third year of medical school in Eastern Nepal.  Ikshya (in the blue jacket) lives with her mother and father, Manu and Durga, and her younger sister, Dikshya, who is now completing 12th grade. Her family is one of only a handful of intact HIO families with both a mother and father. The family’s home is a small, 10’ x 12’ brick structure with scant furniture and no plumbing. Typical of the way most of our sponsored families live. In traditional Nepali culture, sons are preferred and the birth of a daughter is seen as a burden. Parents think, Who will take care of us when we’re old if there's no son? Without a doubt, Ikshya and Dikshya will have the means and compassion to care for their parents as they age. Manu and Durga are caretakers for a wealthy landowner. They own little and work long days of physical labor. In exchange for their work, the family lives at the back of the landlord’s large inner-city compound, tending his home and gardens and allowed to grow some crops for their own use while embracing their connection to nature. The property is full of exotic trees and plants, a total escape from the constant din of city noises, dust and traffic on the streets nearby. An oasis of sorts. The feeling of peace and tranquility belies the family’s profound poverty. Manu is supportive and gracious. Durga is kind and gentle. It’s plain to see the love and admiration they have for both of their hardworking girls. Like her parents, Ikshya is calm and soft spoken. She embodies a lovely combination of her parents’ warmth and sincerity with a quiet confidence and a keen sense of purpose inspired by the education she so treasures.  Ikshya will join ranks with her HIO sister, Sashmita, now in her second year of dental school. These two bright, shining stars enjoyed working together during a Reach for the Stars photography workshop facilitated by DeeDee Morriswww.deedeemorris.com/ last fall. We can never fully foresee the future, but for Ikshya, it certainly appears bright. She readily agrees to one day sponsor another young Nepali girl when she finishes her education and settles into a job. An aspect of HIO’s sustainability that allows those gifted with an education to honor themselves and others with a similar gift. Ikshya says, I can't explain how happy I am to get the spot (in medical school), and in addition, seeing my parents and your congratulations and love made me even more happy. Happy indeed we all are, dear Ikshya, as you prove to the world what it means to dream big and work hard to truly discover the stars. You’re an inspiration for us all. Lovingly - Ricky and Laura  Tara Darji is the head of her household, working long days as a domestic and caring for her three young daughters. Denied access to education as a girl, Tara is helping disrupt a cycle of poverty for her family by attending Be Part of Her Dream classes. Dear Friends, As you celebrate strong women this weekend, please join us in honoring seventy-five HIO mothers studying in our Be Part of Her Dream (BPOHD) women’s empowerment program. Twenty-five women like Tara have participated in BPOHD since 2016. Fifty will begin classes next month. All show remarkable courage, vision and strength. These women are poor not because they lack initiative, but because they lack resources, opportunity and education. They're unseen and unheard. When HIO gives them a second chance to learn as adults, they're shocked. What a smart choice to say yes! This year, ten women who’ve learned to read and write through previous BPOHD classes will pilot a one-year, innovative curriculum called On Her Way. It's being brilliantly designed by our HIO intern, Sofia Riva. This group will continue their journey toward financial independence through monthly personal budgeting and savings plan exercises. Hands-on vocational training will give them opportunities to hone practical and marketable skills. A core aspect of the program will use carefully guided critical thinking activities to deepen women’s awareness of human rights.  On Her Way human rights lessons build sequentially, presenting a global perspective while reaching a more personal level. From access to clean water to citizenship and civic participation, from labor and disability rights to violence against women, the curriculum holistically addresses all aspects of life. We’ll introduce stories of women from around the world with similar experiences that our girls’ mothers can relate to. Through discussion and journal writing, they’ll reflect on human rights issues and injustices that affect their own lives. Most importantly, the curriculum aims to foster a sense of solidarity and advocacy, inspiring BPOHD mothers' voices to be heard on issues that are important to them and to their communities. A key component of the BPOHD program’s success is an incentive stipend each woman receives in exchange for participation. In 2023, sixty-five women will attend classes for two hours, five days a week and will receive $30 per month. Ten On Her Way students will receive $100 per month for their extra commitment to a five-hour school day. This amount is nearly equivalent to a living wage, what’s needed to truly make lasting change. Receiving a stipend eases the women’s worries about losing wages they would earn if they weren’t in school. It adds extra encouragement for them to stay focused and committed to learning. We’re humbled by the steadfast care and support that inspires our HIO girls and their mothers in Nepal to shine. Your kindness helps them chart paths toward more empowered, fulfilling and dignified lives. Our deepest gratitude for all you do and very warm wishes for a happy Mother’s Day. Lovingly - Laura and Ricky  Sofia Riva spent the summer of 2018 in Kathmandu as a Columbia University undergraduate working with our Be Part of Her Dream mothers and teachers. Sofia's inclusive nature, sharp mind and big heart quickly endeared her to our HIO community. She was instrumental in creating systems that continue to guide program monitoring and evaluation today. Now a Human Rights Master's Degree candidate at the University of Padova, Italy, Sofia has fully immersed herself in HIO’s work again. Designing the On Her Way curriculum as a catalyst for sustainable change means so much more to Sofia than a final internship project. What a blessing for HIO that Sofia is carrying our important work forward. And what a delightful reunion it will be when Sofia returns to Kathmandu to work in person with our HIO community again soon.
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